2009年12月13日星期日

Becoming open to others

The word "open" is for sale Inflatable Slide really used a lot. Many of us first heard it when we were very small and someone was hovering over us with a spoonful of strained food in their hand and urging us to open up wider. You've probably heard "open up" in many ways too, over the years. Open your hearts, open your minds. It's used in many, many ways. Probably most people would like to be more open than they are right now. We know it feels good to share with others. It's really a nice feeling to get things off our chest, to get them out in the open. We sometimes use our friends and families for this purpose. If feels good to talk to somebody about things we're concerned about. It's good to be able to trust somebody. What do we really mean by becoming open? Well, trying to talk about yourself in such a way that something of the inner person, that is you, is communicated to others might be one way of being open or at least thinking about being open. That inner person is a complex person who has a variety of thoughts and also feelings. So, wanting to share with other people these inner feelings and these inner thoughts is one way of becoming open. Being open is a kind of invitation to others. What you share abou wholesale Inflatable Toys yourself should encourage others to come in, so to speak and make contact with you. To involve themselves with you. Being open is difficult. It makes us feel vulnerable, psychologically naked and usually anxious. But it also is important in terms of really letting others get to understand how we think, how we feel and what we believe. We often hide our inner thoughts and feelings because we're concerned how well excepted they'll be by other people. But we also shut out other people from knowing and accepting us by not being open. We also are really saying we don't fully accept ourselves if we won't be open with others. We're denying ourselves that chance to speak out, to declare our inner thoughts and feelings. It's up to you to decide just how you're going to talk about yourself and what you're going to say.